I’m happy with my girlfriend but I can’t stop thinking about my ex who cheated two years ago – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: TWO years on from getting dumped, I am still dreaming about my ex – even though I don’t want to see her.

She was my first real love but cheated on me and I have moved on.

I am happy with my new girlfriend, so why am I thinking about my ex?

It is affecting our sex life, as I feel guilty and don’t know whether to tell my girlfriend why.

She is 29 and I’m 30.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Dreaming about an ex doesn’t mean you want to get back with them – but there may be a message in there.

My guess would be you are beginning to feel more seriously about your present girlfriend and that is triggering anxieties about whether that would make you vulnerable to her hurting you, as your ex did.

Tell her you care for her and sometimes need reassuring that she feels the same way.

Better to ask for a loving hug rather than drawing back

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