I’m scared to leave my missus for another woman because I’m rubbish in bed – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: BECAUSE I am rubbish in bed, I am too scared to meet somebody else if I leave my partner, like I want to.

I’ve been with her eight years. She is the one girl I’ve ever been with and I met her at college when we were 18. We are now 26.

I don’t want to be with her the rest of my life but I may have to stick with her now because I always finish too soon every time we have sex.

I have tried having sex with two other girls but I was so worried I wouldn’t perform that I couldn’t even get an erection.

My girlfriend accepts the poor sex life we have but I can’t. I want to meet somebody else but I can’t bear to fail yet again.

DEIDRE SAYS: I do pity your girlfriend – not so much because of her sex life but because she is unloved. She must sense that deep down.

Climaxing quickly is one of the easiest sexual problems to work around or resolve so you can enjoy a mutually satisfying sex life.

My e-leaflet Want To Last Longer? explains.

But work on your relationship too – either strengthen it or call it a day. This half-life isn’t fair on anybody.

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