My husband constantly stares at other women

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband couldn’t take his eyes off a woman changing out of her wetsuit on the beach the other day. It makes me sick.

Though I was talking to him, he completely blanked me – staring at this person as if he had never seen a woman in the flesh before.

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We are both 46 and have been married for more than 20 years.

Despite having three kids I’ve always looked after my appearance, I go to fitness classes and watch what I eat.

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He must know that his gawping at other women upsets me.

But he would rather sit and stare on the beach near our caravan than talk to me.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your husband you need to talk to him and pick a time when he is not distracted by the TV, his phone or anything else.

Explain you feel unhappy that he stares at other women and that it does nothing for your confidence.

Suggest something you can do as a couple to be romantic – and to remember why you got together in the first place.

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