Woman, 23, only ever has wanted to have sex with her husband, 45
Woman, 23, married to man 22 YEARS her senior reveals he’s the only man she’s ever slept with – after fearing she was asexual as a teenager because she always turned down ‘hot guys’
- Sav Kepler, 23, from Auckland, 22 years younger than husband Mark Kepler, 45
- She used to think she was ‘asexual’ because was not attracted to nay men before
- Said was ‘terrified’ would never find love, now shrugs critics’ commnents off
A woman who feared she was asexual as a teenager claims to have found her lust for the opposite sex by embracing her attraction to older men – and she’s now happily married to a man 22 years her senior.
Sav Kepler, 23, from Auckland, was considering intimacy counselling as a teen because she worried her lack of sexual desire would mean she would never find love.
But after turning to Tinder and searching for a more mature partner, she met Mark Kepler, now 45, the first and only man she’s ever been intimate with and who is now her husband five years on.
However after the now 23-year-old showed off their 22-year difference in ages on social media in a bid to ‘normalise’ age-gap relationships, the couple were met with abuse and branded ‘disgusting’.
But sales specialist Sav shrugs off the backlash and argues that their relationship is a ‘win-win’ because each learns something different from the other.
Sav Kepler, 23, from Auckland, left, revealed she’s only ever wanted to have sex with her husband Mark, 45, who is 22 years her senior. Pictured together
Sav said: ‘I was in high school and always dating the hottest guys you could imagine but when they would try to make a move and I would shut them down every time.
‘Something about it just didn’t work for me. I remember thinking, “maybe I’m asexual” because I knew I wasn’t a lesbian.
‘It terrified me – I was scared I would never find love and I was going to go to counselling for intimacy problems.
‘But then just as I left high school at 18 years old I met Mark on Tinder and realised I just hadn’t found the right person.
Sav, pictured, said she considered going through intimacy counselling as a teen because she wasn’t attracted to any of the men she met
‘The first time we met we just chatted and then the next time we hooked up and I didn’t feel resistant at all. I thought “this guy is amazing, I really like him”.
‘I was so relieved to lose my virginity and thought thank god, I can go and live my life now but this guy works really well – it’s cool that I fell in love with the person that took my virginity.’
Sav says her celebrity crushes were always older men so she decided to set her Tinder account to the highest age limit in an attempt to find someone who could keep her interested, unlike men her own age.
After connecting with Mark and chatting for six months the pair met up and then spent two years dating before moving in together in mid 2019.
After struggling to connect with men her age, Sav decided to look for older men on Tinder and met Mark, pictured
Despite it being Sav’s first relationship and Mark’s first time living with a partner, the pair quickly realised they were right for each other and married in February this year.
The newlyweds say they forget they have over two decades between them until other people mention it and they feel they are just like any other couple.
Sav said: ‘It feels completely right but it has been so much of a learning curve for me as my first relationship.
‘And for both of us – I’m the first girl Mark has lived with so we’ve both had to learn a lot together.
‘Even though there’s an age gap we’re still learning the ropes of a serious, long term relationship together.
Sav, pictured, and Mark felt they were ‘made for each other,’ Sav said the couple forget there is an age gap between them
The 23-year-old, pictured, said she doesn’t care what other people think, and she shares pictures of her relationship online to normalise her and Mark’s bond
The couple, pictured left, have received a lot of backlash online. Some said even thought they tied the knot in February this year, right, the match won’t last
‘I forget we have an age gap until someone says it. It’s never mattered to me – love is love.’
After sharing photos and videos online about their relationship the couple have received a lot of backlash for their 22-year age gap.
Horrified commenters insist that the marriage won’t last because of their age difference and believe that Mark will eventually leave Sav for a younger woman.
But she says this is just other people’s own insecurities and doesn’t let the trolls get into her head, joking that she could replace him easier if she needed to.
Sav said: ‘There are a lot of people on TikTok who are appalled by it and think it’s disgusting.
Sav, pictured, said she doesn’t understand why people are so appalled by her and Mark’s relationship
The 23-year-old, pictured joked she will be the one replacing Mark with a younger man, because she is ‘ten times hotter and younger’ than him
‘They say wait until he replaces you with someone who’s 18 again but I’m ten times hotter and younger than him so I’ll replace him if I need to.
‘To me it’s just like any other relationship and I don’t understand why people are negative about it.
‘He has more life experience than me which helps me get a better life and he’s learning how to be young and vibrant as well, it’s a win-win.’
Sav said the relationship was a win-win because Mark helped her to get successful, and she kept him ‘young and vibrant’
Mark, 45, pictured, immediately fell for Sav, who is 22 years his junior. People are joking he will leave Sav for someone younger
Pictured: Sav and Mark on their wedding day in February. Sav said the criticisms the couple have received is just other people projecting their own insecurities
Sav, right, said it was cool that she’s fallen in love with the man who took her virginity, after years doubting she was attracted to men
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